With anal play becoming more and more popular in the bedroom, we thought we’d take a closer look at the ultimate types of anal stimulator and a few ways in which you can ease yourself into the motions. For some men, the anus is viewed as risky and taboo territory, but it’s actually one of the best ways to achieve orgasm, with the right stimulation. You just need to give it a whirl, you know what they say, don’t knock it until you’ve tried it!
We’ve all heard about the wonders of the prostate, or p-spot as they’re often called, but many of us aren’t exactly sure what it is, what it does or where to find it. Firstly, the prostate is a highly sensitive gland that lives inside your body, more specifically in your anal canal. It produces the fluids contained in your semen, used to transport sperm. When you’re aroused, the prostate swells slightly, making it slightly easier to find. From your anus opening, you’ll feel your prostate about 3 inches into your rectum. It’ll feel like a soft bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. The more turned on you are, the easier you’ll find it and feel the benefits.
Everyone is different and you may need some practice to really be able to self-stimulate the prostate. Be patient. You can persevere with your fingers or use an anal stimulator to help you on your way!
What do Prostate Orgasms Feel Like?
P-spot orgasms feel similar to penile orgasms, except they can be a lot more intense and felt through the entire body. Many men report having ‘the shakes’, in which the whole body shudders during and after ejaculation. Not everyone ejaculates during a prostate orgasm. The easiest way to orgasm by involving the prostate is to mix up p-spot and penis play.
The Best Anal Stimulator
It really depends on your preferences and how advanced you are with anal play. Your anus is full of lots of sensitive nerve endings, so before you jump into toys, we recommend playing around with your fingers first. You’ll soon find out if it’s your kind of bag! Remember to use plenty of lube before getting experimental with your anal stimulator, this ensures ultimate comfort throughout and a more pleasurable experience.
Collapsible Butt Plug
This one is extremely useful for guys looking to start smaller and gradually build up to something bigger over time. Made from comfortable silicone, the collapsible butt plug offers ultimate expansion width and length ways. It can be inserted very easily and enlarged or shrunk down at the touch of a button, to accommodate whatever you’re in the mood for.
An anal vibe is one of the most satisfying anal stimulators available. It’s a smaller, neater and more discreet version of a standard dildo. Perfect for a quick pleasure experience, its coned soft silicone nature means no fuss and easy insertion. Vibes have lots of different vibration modes, so you can indulge and really discover what feels good for you.
Slightly more slimline than the standard dildo or butt plug, sensation bubbles are a type of anal bead. You can get ones that vibrate, or if you prefer a suctioned pad, you can use some of these against a wall or on a surface. They add a slightly different sensation to penetration because they are ribbed into varying bubble like shapes. They’re light and portable and are perfect for anyone looking to trying something new!
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