Whether we’re talking general self-esteem or confidence in the bedroom, it all comes under a similar bracket. Lacking in self confidence is something that we’ve all dealt with at some point in our lives and it’s difficult to get out of that mindset if you don’t know how. There are various conventional methods to try, but did you know that fulfilling sex (both solo or with a partner) can really help boost confidence? A sex toy subscription can encourage this, helping you to feel empowered and become more confident in your body and your choices.
Confidence begins with understanding your body and mind, accepting what you feel and working towards things that make you feel good! Sex plays a huge part in how we feel about ourselves and understanding your sexual desires can make you a more confident person in general. So, if you want to improve your self-confidence and self-esteem, a good place to start may be the bedroom.
In the Bedroom
Confidence in yourself equates to confidence between the sheets. It can be difficult to demand sexual satisfaction when you’re not confident enough as a person. People who lack self-esteem often feel happier submitting themselves to fulfilling a sexual partner’s desires, without asking for the same in return.
It’s important that you take the time to discover exactly what you like. When sex happens, you’ll feel more confident guiding your partner in the right direction because you’ll know what works for you. Masturbation is a great way to discover new things about your body.
Orgasms release oxytocin, known as the ‘love hormone’ which, besides enhancing the feeling of bonding with a partner, also helps to relieve tension and stimulate feelings of intimacy and happiness. If you’re having orgasms, you’ll feel more confident in the bedroom and with a partner, those bonding chemicals will help the formation of trust between you.
Exploration through sex toys allows you some time out from the routine of daily life. It’s healthy to experiment with new feelings and sensations without fear, shame or guilt. The key to confidence is understanding your body, so if you know what makes it tick, then you’re on the way to a more accepting, confident you! A sex toy subscription can help you find a new appreciation for your body you on your journey of discovery through satisfaction and comfort in your own skin.
As you become more confident with what you like in the bedroom, you can try different toys to suit what you’re feeling. They can also encourage you to be more open, improving your communication in the bedroom, which leads to better sex.
Being honest and communicating with your partner is a step to being a more confident you, especially in the bedroom. With your newfound knowledge, try these new things; whether it’s a sensual massage or using your sex toy subscription box, take this time to further understand each other’s’ bodies. Sex is about connection, so tell each other what feels good and what you like – this will help you to connect. It’s important to remember that you should never feel silly in front of your partner. Sex is a time where you can take things back to basics and tune into each other’s’ sexual desires.
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Using your sex toy subscription is a great to self-empower and become a more confident you! Ouradult monthly box contains lots of sex toys, and sexual wellbeing gifts, perfect for both a little you time, and exploration with a partner. If you’re interested, contact us hereor for more information, head over to our Instagram.