Essential Bondage Toys for Couples



With national BDSM day coming up on 24th June, here at Satisfied Box, we thought it only fitting to divulge in the essential bondage toys for couples. These super suggestions are absolute must haves for those looking to add a little heat to the bedroom, completely transforming your sex life and adding the naughtiness you’ve been craving!


BDSM Practices


If you’re a BDSM veteran, you’ll know that it is an umbrella term for kinky sexual practices involving – Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. It typically includes elements of roleplaying, dominance and submission. It’s exciting and you can add as much or as little of these elements into sex as you see fit. For example, a little hand spanking and hair pulling can go down a treat and completely do the trick. For something a little more hardcore though, you want to be looking at bondage toys for couples.


BDSM sex toys are a little more specific than your average sex toys. They cater to the dominator/submissive roles and come in the form of: restraints, blindfolds, ball gags, chastity devices, floggers, nipple clamps, to name a few. We’d suggest a little research, so you can take a look at what you’d like to try before buying a drawer full!


Cuffs


Restraints are the bread and butter of BDSM. If you’re looking for bondage toys for couples, leather cuffs or straps are a great place to start. They are easy to get hold of and come in a range of materials – we’d recommend leather because they’re comfortable, easy to clean and slightly more malleable than metal or plastic. You can even get cuffs that are lined with soft faux fur, for extra comfort.


Bondage Rope


A slight level up on the cuffs; bondage rope is a wonderful way to satisfy that kink. Widely available online, you can get different lengths and variations of rope – just be sure you order the right rope. Restraint ropes are not suitable for suspension, as they don’t support body weight. Start off with wrist and ankle restraints and when you feel more confident, you can try other combination knots, tying different parts of the body.


Impact Tools


For those who know they like a little pain induced pleasure, then impact tools are the perfect remedy. Bondage toys for couples come in many shapes and sizes, but you can’t go far wrong with the likes of paddles, floggers and canes. A word of warning: don’t just ‘go for it’ when it comes to impact play. You should always decide on a safe word and communicate throughout your session to ensure each other’s safety. Start softly and work up to a harder threshold; you don’t want to seriously hurt one another because that’s one way to kill a good sex vibe.


Impact tools are reasonably priced online and there is plenty of choice. Floggers tend to be the most forgiving tool because the impact is spread through multiple tails. Riding crops are fun to use and their small impact zone means that they’re more on the vanilla side of pain, still be cautious at first though because it’s easy to go overboard.


Paddles have the largest impact zone and are certainly satisfying when it comes to hearing that all importantclapping sound. Wooden or leather paddles have a similar effect, the leather just resonates a little more. Paddles are great to use on the buttocks – be careful of those bony areas.


Canes and whips are probably the harshest of the bunch. They cut through the air like a hot knife through butter and can cause the most pleasurable pain for those with an extremely high pain threshold. These aren’t for the fainthearted, so we’d suggest watching a couple of videos to help you on the way to correct technique.


Get in Touch


If you’re looking to try bondage toys for couples, we’d love to help you spice up your sex life! At Satisfied Box, we offer a monthly adult sex toy subscription box, full of BDSM favourites and plenty of choice. Check out our Instagram for more information or sign up here!



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